There’s a new charity that gives bullied kids plastic surgery, but no one changes the bully!

Last night on dateline there was a story about a group of benevolent surgeons who have formed a charity to surgically alter the looks of bullied children for free? Sounds great doesn’t it? Over 100 top flight surgeons nationwide getting together giving nose jobs, new chins and fixing cleft palates and eyes, wow
Here’s my point they go back to the school and social group they came from and the asshole bully still is unchanged and we all know bullying isn’t really about one facial feature it’s about a need for power over one individual by another.
Why not get 100 professionals together and have children’s courts send the bullies to them to let them know unless they do therapy and public service they are the ones who have to know pain not the victim. Why should a beautiful child with a cleft palate have to undergo hours of painful surgery and months of rehab because some slob can’t keep his illiterate mouth shut?
When they got chosen and went in for the corrective surgery the plastic surgeon talked all of them into noses and extras such as chins and ear pinning that had nothing to do with the original problem he just turned them into his little advertisements.
Yes If a child or a teen has a birth defect offer a package the bully does court ordered therapy makes a public apology in the lunchroom at school and does community service in hospital wards for children with similar defects and also the victim Gets JUST the defect fixed not a litany of extras turning her into Barbie. As one of the girls best friends put it “if she’s happy afterwards fine but we who love her have always thought her perfect and not needing one damn thing changed”
This to me is just changing the victim and ignoring the bully, but America is good at that. Children get slaughtered by automatic weapons in sandy hook and they don’t ban the weapon they criticize the school for not having their own arsenal with bigger guns!
A woman gets raped, her skirts were too short, and a person of Muslim origins gets attacked “ban the burkha” a gay gets beaten “they showed too much PDA” see the pattern?
The media last night tried to say “what benevolent surgeons but thanks to hoda the real story was told and parents of some children expressed the same opinion I did and one teen who was up for consideration was turned down but six months later was popular started an anti-bullying campaign and all his years of isolation had made him such a self-taught kick ass guitar player he was recruited to play in a top band.
Let’s love our children how they are ,fight the bullies where they are and just make sure that just like you promised the day they were born where ever life takes them you always have their back.

Author: disabledaccessdenied

I am a disabled woman who through no fault of my own has wheels under my ass. I rely on the decency and common sense of local, state and federal goverments, as well as the retail community to abide by the disabled access laws and provide adequate ramps, disabled toilets, and not use them as store rooms or broom closets. This blog exists to find the offenders and out them, inform them, and report them if necessary and shame them into doing the right thing when all else fails.

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