The phone just rang and someone I care about asked me can I help her sister escape her abusive husband, the call didn’t surprise me, the first time I went to his house he wasn’t there it was his toddler sons birthday and he was out getting drunk with the boys. This woman always had bruises and when ever we visited her husband was never home and when he was he would be arrogant rude and never loving.
When I was 4 or 5 my father raped and then beat my mother unconcious and broke her armg in front of her youn g children on the floor wearing nothing but a torn slip around her waist on the kitchen floor. When the country cop arrived he didnt arrest my dad he just said “oh russel what will they think at lions club now apologise” then when my mom came too the cop told her if she was a better wife and was more loving my father wouldn’t get so upset.
Abuse and violent physical attack on any woman related to you or not is disgusting, I have multiple blackbelts in different arts and when I wasnt permanantly in a wheelchair I was 6ft 3-4 inches tall and most said an imposing figure. I know how how to kick ass and take names and yes I hae been attacked by a female or two in my Iife, and yet never once have I ever raised a hand in violence against any woman.
Thats another point lesbian spousal abuse is also out of control, just because it’ woman on woman doesn’t make it right.
No violence is ever justified unless you’re literally fighting for your life, but whether you’re a female black belt or ex military I’m sorry in most cases a man is physically superior in strength to a woman. I am now working to help this woman and her two babies disappear, and now my fears have been confirmed if he raises a hand against this woman again he’ll eat my wheelchair.
If you know someone who you think is being abused let them know you’re there for them, let them know if they need to get out your there. Don’t pull the bullshit number that it’s none of your business, spousal abuse is everyones business. Be there for them the way you would want someone there for you