Mothers day, it can be heaven or for some of us hell.

Mother’s day, father’s day Christmas or Chanukah are the times of the year when if you survived molestation and abuse you want to turn of electronic devices and hide till their over?
There are these annoying things called MEMES online, they are generally cute photos that well meaning people type cute lovey- dovey sayings over putting their mothers or fathers or family’s on pedestals so high they look down on mother Teresa. Everyone shares these MEMES to everyone online they have ever met, and if you don’t share them on and add your glorious statement of love for your people your bad your wrong and you get flamed.
Well folks when your mom was baking cookies and hugging you to sleep at night, my mom was walking in on one sibling raping another and just standing there for a moment and saying “enough of that you have school in the morning” and because of her attitude the rape continued for many more years.
When your mother was paying for your wedding and giving you something old to wear, my mother banished me for daring to reveal her failure to stop 10 years of molestation and paid for the pedophiles wedding.
Different details, different situations, but always the same kind of terror, through online groups and attending support groups I know there are millions like me out there in the world. So next time before you bombard your friend list with sweet syrupy “if you love your mom or dad share this” MEMES, stop and consider not everyone had June cleaver for a mom some of us had the mother from bates motel or mommie dearest. This sunday While you call your mom an angel some of us just wish she was.

Author: disabledaccessdenied

I am a disabled woman who through no fault of my own has wheels under my ass. I rely on the decency and common sense of local, state and federal goverments, as well as the retail community to abide by the disabled access laws and provide adequate ramps, disabled toilets, and not use them as store rooms or broom closets. This blog exists to find the offenders and out them, inform them, and report them if necessary and shame them into doing the right thing when all else fails.

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